Friday, May 29, 2009

Ratnagiri and in between


The conclusion of my extended leave found me getting re-acquainted with long winding empty roads, soulful music playing on the stereo and invigorating conversations. Mahesh had to drop off his daughter Anyushka at their "native place" - Ladghar. Daddy had some work in Ratnagiri. The Konkan beckoned and off we went, our merry band of 4. Started off at around 6:45 a.m.; driving on empty roads in Mumbai is a rare treat. Zipped past Vashi and other assorted suburbs to reach Panvel in a good 90 minutes. Breakfast halt at "Shanbar Vishranti", a shade prior to the Karnala Bird sanctuary. After demolishing some "mendhu vadas" washed down with tea, we proceeded to Mangaon.Halted at a smallish tapari for some bhajiya pav, after a failed attempt at finding tea at what turned out to be the local bar. Man, people were downing bagpiper at 9:00 in the morning. We made our way to Dapoli (roughly 160 kms from Mumbai) accompanied by some truly moving Marathi bhavgeets. the songs made even more memorable with Daddy reminiscing about musicians, singers and poets of an era long gone by.
There is something infinitely peaceful about a long drive (out of the city); believe me nothing better than this to take your mind of the daily grind. I must thank Daddy and Janaki (my better half) for having me learn how to drive a car. I must also thank them for getting me acquainted with the Konkan region. It is a fantastic combination of surf, sand, clear blue skies and sea food. I have traveled to Goa (my home town) many times without ever saying hello to this wonderful place. Bachpan mein, bus mein baithe around 4:00 p.m. got off in Goa around 7:00 a.m. next day. The Konkan would speed by during the night, unnoticed, silently.. I guess I am making up for lost time; I have explored various parts of the Konkan in about 7-8 trips in the last four years and have always returned exhilarated.

Cut to the journey, Ladghar is about 8 odd kms. from Dapoli, a newly reinforced bridge appeared like a sentinel zealously guarding paradise. Over the bridge, just beyond the local school, an almost invisible turn off the main road and a rakish one thereafter found us at the ancestral home of the “Bals”. Mahesh’s moms place, now tended to, by her brother. I am pretty sure that 99% of all people polled would choose “mama” as their favorite relative.

It’s a typical Konkani “kawalaru” house, built some 60 years ago, surrounded by coconut and supari plantation. The sheer hard work put in by mama and his family has indeed borne rich fruits. We proceeded to filling our stomachs with an absolutely delightful meal. Daddy and mama got along lke a house on fire, exchanging thoughts on mango cultivation and some serious politician bashing. Mahesh and I spent the afternoon lazing in the aangan watching some ladies thresh rice and anyushka gambol about with the house cat. Cutting through the plantation, we made our way to the beach just about a stone’s throw away. Caught Daddy in a reflective mood, quite easily photo of the trip...


Mahesh and I visited the local school. Pretty neat, portraits of the only heroes we have adorned the walls. Bahar baith kar (always the outstanding kinds), we had a long chat, the longest in years, caught up on a lot of things and still had more left. Dinner beckoned as it got pretty dark, rapidly as it does in rural India.

Next day we proceeded to Ratnagiri, got there in about 3 hours, just in time for lunch at “Amantran”. Just next to hotel Vihar Deluxe, Maal Naka. Heavenly, ghar jaisa khana, highly recommended for sea food though the veg section is pretty good as well. We shacked up at Daddy’s place. Shyam ko thoda marketing kiya, Mahesh took time off to catch up with relatives. Dinner at Amantran, uske baad Mahesh and I had a long shaayari, old songs session. Really felt like old times, missed the cutting chai at NIASA though.
Janaki and I have known Mahesh all our adult lives. We have managed to remain in touch with each other despite our jobs, transfers, multiple residence changes, the traffic in Mumbai. I guess you make a lot many acquaintances in life and very few friends. We are indeed lucky to have Mahesh inhabit the latter category.
That brings us to the 24th of May. After a quick breakfast, we purchased some fruits, collected some stuff from Mahesh’s relatives and started back to Mumbai around 10:30 a.m. Daddy stayed back. It was fun coming back, I have noticed that the journey back home always seems shorter. Since we did not have any fixed plan in mind, took a short detour upon spotting this bridge. Snacks at Chiplun, followed by an unsuccessful attempt to get some lunch at a charming restaurant just by the river. Do not know the exact spot though. We reached Nagothane at around 3:30, stopped for a quick bite and then did the home stretch to reach home around 6:00.

The best part about the trip was as always the journey, frankly the destination is immaterial. Got to renew a long standing friendship. Will always remember Mahesh singng Caravan Guzar gaya, made even more sublime by the pitch darkness and absoulte silence of the night in which it was rendered.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

In touch with myself

My decision to step off the daily treadmill for three weeks was met with amusement, amazement, envy and disbelief in varying degrees. The first question “what do you plan to do” was inevitably followed by “So where are you off to”. Lack of any sort of plan on my part seemed to be quite weird.

I have spent the last 10 odd days doing nothing and frankly loved every minute of it.
Well, it won’t be right to say “nothing”.

Actually this is possibly the first time in many years that I have not been led by a to do list. I have woken up fresh; with no specific agenda running in my head. Also have stopped wearing a wristwatch since the last two days or was it three…..

I have caught up on music like never before. Marathi mainly. Listened to some truly wonderful songs both in terms of lyrics as well as music. Also caught up on some poetry; Marathi again. Spent a lot of time with Avanti and watched the future of the country unfold.

I have thought about what I intend to do in the future.

I have caught up with friends and family; got a lot of paperwork sorted out, got some appliances serviced and broke some (vicious cycle really)…..

I have started reading up a bit. Started off on “Churchill”, a bit of Indian history and “Jawaharlal Nehru”- biography by Frank Moraes.

Most of all, I have got back in touch with the voice in my head. I have realized that too many things had cluttered up my mind; so jettisoned many unwanted thoughts. I have walked like crazy, and also realized the need to move up the fitness ladder. One cannot translate dreams into reality without a fit body. The need to go beyond my own comfort zone is now assuming great importance. There is a world beyond Mumbai and Goa, (please do read “Everybody loves a good drought”) which is in need of able hands and stout hearts. I hope to find some cause to get this into action.

One of the best poems ever- Suresh Bhat:

जगत मी आलो असा की, मी जसा जगलोच नाही!
एकदा तुटलो असा की, मग पुन्हा जुळलोच नाही!

जन्मभर अश्रूंस माझ्या शिकविले नाना बहाणे;
सोंग पण फसव्या जिण्याचे शेवटी शिकलोच नाही!

कैकदा कैफात मझ्या मी विजांचे घोट प्यालो;
पण प्रकाशाला तरीही हाय, मी पटलोच नाही!

सारखे माझ्या स्मितांचे हुंदके सांभाळले मी;
एकदा हसलो जरासा, मग पुन्हा हसलोच नाही!

स्मरतही नाहीत मजला चेहरे माझ्या व्यथांचे;
एवढे स्मरते मला की, मी मला स्मरलोच नाही!

वाटले मज गुणगुणावे, ओठ पण झाले तिऱ्हाइत;
सुचत गेली रोज गीते; मी मला सुचलोच नाही!

संपल्यावर खेळ माझ्या आंधळ्या कोशिंबिरीचा....
लोक मज दिसले अचानक; मी कुठे दिसलोच नाही!

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

The First Bow-avanti




Ladies and gentlemen, presenting "Zizou". Also known as "Khadyo", "Babdya" and "Manikda". All of six months old, does a mean flop onto her stomach and is currently searching for the elusive first gear.
(photos- Hari Adivarekar)

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Goa - Lagin 2007


It all started sometime in November 2007; Dinya informed us of his bro deciding to tie himself in a knot of the matrimonial kind. Their parents (god bless them) had decided to have this ceremony in Goa. So off we went, sah kutumb sah parivar, into the land where time is irrelevant. Konkan railway ke madhur safar ke baad, we stepped into a cosy resort at Calangute.

Well our better halves had actually met for the first time; all our feeble attempts at arranging a get together prior to this trip had come to a nought. So formal introductions over, we did the most natural thing one does upon spotting a pool... dive right in....

Ok introductions for the uninitiated; Kj with kid Ashmit, Alpesh with KJ, Dr. Prafulla with son Maitreya.

L-R Priya (alpesh's better half, maitreya, Arushi (alpesh ki beti), Sharmilee ( dr. ki MD), amita (KJs better half) holding ashmit and KJ (just in case you did not recognise him with his clothes on)
Not sure whether food followed drinks or vice versa, which is how it was for the rest of our stay. It was great, the only thing we had to decide was where to eat and drink. Time as i said earlier is irrelevant in Goa. The soul simply chills, its in the air.. take it from a true blue Goan. Now for the wedding. Traditional style, simple ceremony followed by lunch. Dinya was all over the place (basically apna bhi kuch jamta hain kya), the ladies had stepped out in style as had all the kids...

(majhi mandli, 2nd from left)
Post this all the guys assembled at "O Coquerio"; the restaurant where Sobhraj was finally nabbed. We had managed to give the wives and kids the slip. The conversation was as sparkling as the beer which seemed to flow endlessly. Called up the two stragglers Vaibhav and Santosh who were to join us but had got caught up in work at Mumbai. Back then to the resort, dinner was at some place close to the beach. Featured below Kj ani mi...

Dr. was busy photographing everything in sight.. Hari you will love these photos.. surreal man...
Next day was devoted to adventure sports....

aur bacchho ko manana...
Whatever we did seemed to work, the kids really enjoyed themselves soon after.....
As for us we kept it simple, decide what to eat
and..... well.... these guys would turn up all by themselves...
Next day heralded the arrival of vaibhav, aryan and santosh.. Simply great on their part to come even if it was for just one day. 6:30 a.m. while the land slept, we greeted them with two cans of very dilligently chilled beers (courtesy doc). Mein dinya aur uske dad ke saath gaya machli bazaar. Quick breakfast and off we went to my hometown.. Shiroda.. machi ghar par rakha and took the gang to the river for a round of fishing...


Kj fed the fishes like never before, Aryan enjoyed himself, I caught one actually so did Santosh... par photo mera hi hain... What followed was a great gastronomic experience at my place, Vaini had outdone herself. Various types of fish in curries and fried avatars truly transported us to a "Vaapas nahin jaaoonga main" kind of state....

Uske baad next day breakfast lunch ke baad, alvida to the most wonderful time we had...

Follow up party in Mumbai followed around Christmas time where the ones who could not make it namely Mugdha, Rucha (santosh ka family) aur Smita (she who has to bear the vaibhavisms all the time) caught up on all the action.....
For me this trip was all about deepening friendship; looking forward to Dinya's marriage now. ladki koi bhi ho, shaadi Goa me icch hone ko mangta hain..
Finally my favorite konkani song... only song i ever heard my father sing... enjoy and "dev barem karu"

Sunday, May 10, 2009

वाडा - अगर कहीं पर जन्नत हैं.......















Santosh Shetty's labour of love at Wada. Quite literally built brick by brick, this place started as a rocky plot. Every trip to Wada has been memorable; me being mistaken for a dead body stuffed in the back of a car, Anjan and Suhas receiving us at Kanchad faata in the dead of the night, the new year celebrations, awesome food and drink, regaled by some great stories by Dilip.... the Williams sisters, the fan belt story, the one and only Dhondu, one bitingly cold new years night the list is endless. As always the great host Santosh and the patron saint of Wada my dear friend Suhas making sure everyone is well stocked up. Sushama, padma vaini and maitri making sure no one sleeps hungry. Anjan making sure everybody dances to "Goli Maar bheje mein"... Wada has seen all the kids grow up, Ajju, Aditya, Arha, akshata.. suhas still refuses to do so....

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Divinity

Just heard "Maalvun Taak Deep". Lata Mangeshkar, Hridaynath Mangeshkar and Suresh Bhat team up to produce a song of intense longing and passion. One of the few songs that makes you feel glad that you were born. Great lyrics, simple tune and an absolutely divine rendition.